You Don’t Need Him!
I rarely issue a rant on this blog but I’ve felt the need to say this for some time now: you don’t need him.
While “he” could be anyone, it’s probably the guy who just dumped you. Or the guy you’re waiting to take things from being “friends with occasional benefits” to actually dating. Or it could be the guy you’re currently dating who just can’t seem to get it right. The point it still the same: YOU DON’T NEED HIM.
What’s the point in putting yourself in situations where your needs aren’t being met? Like those awkward moments where he assumes you’re going to want a romantic encounter and starts the night off being cold and gruff, when all you want to do is split a pizza and watch Project Runway? Or when you break up because he thinks you’re better off being friends, then immediately wants to be friends/wingmen while you’re still dealing with why it ended in the first place? Or when he strings you along by being a “play boyfriend” in public and cuddling up to you on the couch while telling you that you two could never date, but still letting you have an occasional “I’m so wasted” hook up? YOU DO NOT NEED HIM.
You know what, fuck him. Let’s put him and his shit aside for a moment and talk about YOU. Either you feel like crap after you see him because some shit went down, or you walk away with a false sense of security because you think that what he’s offering you is real, although in you’re heart you know that it’s not. Eventually the high you get from sucking on that glass dick of a relationship he’s feeding you isn’t going to work anymore, and it will leave you feeling like dirt. YOU DON’T NEED HIM.
Let it go. Walk away. While he may not be an entirely bad person, your dealings with him aren’t healthy for you, and that cycle of serving you mostly bad feelings for very little joy needs to end.
And when you’ve done this. When you’ve walked away and find yourself without him. And you think that you’re finally okay to be around him, read my other post called “Why you sometimes need to punch an Ex in the face” here and say out loud, “YOU DON’T NEED HIM!”
