Kissing Kamal

My New Year’s resolution is to give up kissing for 2013.  Yeah, this may be a bit of a challenge considering the name of this blog but let me explain:

I’m refusing to make time for any shallow kisses, empty kisses, or sloppy drama-filled kisses.

I’m not kissing him just because it’s the first date or because the ball dropped.  I’m not kissing him because he looks good on paper, or has paper, or because he’s in the paper.  I’m not kissing him because I’m lonely; or because I’m horny; or because the thought of kissing him inflates a desire to have someone to kiss.

I’m not kissing him just because he wants to.  Nor am I kissing him because I want to forget about kissing someone else.  I’m not kissing him as a means to escape, and I’m not kissing him because the alcohol made me.

I want deep, passionate, meaningful kisses in my life.  I want kisses that care about my day and listen to my words.  I want kisses that last, and grow, and evolve.  I want kisses that “get me.”  I want kisses that are honest and sincere.  I want kisses that make me laugh and let me cry when I need to.  I want kisses that not only kiss me back, but have my back.

Just some thoughts as we get ready to ring in the New Year.  Peace and love for 2013.

Hugs.

xoxo